This is one of the great examples one can learn for living a life upto the brim of Satisfaction.It goes this way....
SCENARIO 1:
One fine day, in a house with a Small Family consisting of a couple with their daughter creating a havoc from a small situation which is leading to problems creating lots of tension.
A bucket of water is being placed on the floor in the middle of the room. In the Excitement, the girl doesnot notice this bucket of Water and kicks the bucket spilling the Water on the Floor. The Girl starts crying as her parents start scolding her. Father's tension rises as he is to go to office. He doesnot have his breakfast and leaves for office. As he drives towards office stuck up in the traffic Jam, he realizes that he has forgotten his briefcase.gets back home and takes the briefcase and leaves for office again getting late and receiving harsh words from his Boss.
Scenario 2:
On an other day, the same bucket of Water is being kept on the floor in the middle of the room. Father gets late for the Office and kicks the bucket unnoticed of its presence.He shouts at his wife telling her why the bucket has been kept in the middle of the room.same old tension begins and he gets late to the Office.
Positive Way of dealing the above scenario:
As the Water spills on the floor, the Father should react in a soft tone to his daughter telling her not to cry as the spilled water can be wiped away soon. In this way, the girl feels happy and father is relieved from tension. he has his food on time and leaves for office without leaving any of his things behind. he is on time to his Office.
Moral:
1) Always keep yourself in the position of the person who has done something unintentionally which you dont like being done.(You wont get angry)
2) Mistake Happens with everyone, teach the person who has done the mistake.( He doesnt repeat it again)
3) Always perceive every situation in a positive way(you will get away from Anger)
4) Think of every possibility of a situation that aroused and take the one which is less havoc creating.
